Opening Dance for Your Wedding

Are you getting married soon and thinking about an opening dance at your wedding, but don't know where to start? Which songs are suitable for an opening dance and whether or not you and your soon-to-be should learn choreography? We have listed all the useful information and tips about the opening dance for you.

What is an opening dance?

An opening dance is the first dance of a wedding party, with which the bridal couple opens the party. Traditionally, this dance has always been a foxtrot or an English waltz. The band or musician determined the music, the bridal couple focused entirely on the dance. Next came the second dance: the father-daughter dance. The third dance was for the bridal couple and the groom's parents. Then the dance floor was officially open! Nowadays everyone fills it in their own way. A choice is often made between a band or DJ who can provide the music for the opening dance.

Is an opening dance required?

About two-thirds of bridal couples do an opening dance. For many couples, the dance is the second most important moment of their wedding day – the ceremony is, of course, number one. However, the opening dance is not mandatory. So don't you feel like exhibiting your dance talent? Then you just skip the opening dance!

If you decide not to have an opening dance, there are delightful alternatives that can engage and entertain your guests. Here are a few ideas:

1. Captivating Slideshow: Share a captivating slideshow showcasing cherished moments of your journey together, creating a nostalgic and heartwarming atmosphere.

2. Heartfelt Speech: Take a moment to express your gratitude and love by delivering a heartfelt speech that touches the hearts of your guests.

3. Musical Performance: Showcase your musical talents or hire musicians to perform a live music set, enchanting your guests with melodies that hold special meaning to you both.

4. Professional Entertainment: Add a touch of professionalism to your celebration by hiring dancers, magicians, or other entertainers who can mesmerize your guests and leave them in awe.

5. Symbolic Gesture: Create a symbolic gesture like "cutting" a bow or ribbon to symbolize the opening of the celebration, inviting everyone to join in the joyous festivities.

Choosing the Dance Style:

If you opt for an opening dance, consider selecting a dance style that resonates with your personality and sets the desired ambience. Here are some popular dance styles to consider:

1. Modern Dance: Create a contemporary and personalized opening dance routine that showcases your unique style and love for each other.

2. Classic Waltz: Embrace the elegance and grace of a classic waltz, captivating your guests with its romantic atmosphere.

3. Enchanting Foxtrot: Dance to the rhythm of a foxtrot, which combines sophistication and romance to create a memorable experience.

4. Vibrant Cha-Cha: Infuse your opening dance with energy and liveliness by incorporating the vibrant steps of the cha-cha.

5. Passionate Salsa: Heat up the dance floor with a passionate salsa routine that will get everyone in the mood for celebration.

Remember, the most important aspect of your opening dance is that it reflects your preferences and resonates with you as a couple. Whether you choose an elaborate choreography or a simple, heartfelt way, your guests will appreciate the authenticity and love behind your dance.

Your wedding day is an occasion to celebrate your love, commitment, and happiness. Whether you decide on an opening dance, explore alternative options, or mix and match different styles, it's the personal touch that will make your celebration truly memorable. Dance with joy, embrace the love that surrounds you, and create cherished memories that will last a lifetime.

Some bridal couples turn the opening dance into quite a spectacle: they have a mix of different numbers made and study a choreography – often under the supervision of a dance instructor. Others just shuffle a little. One is not better than the other. The most important thing is that bridal couples do something that suits them. And my experience is: whatever they do, they always applaud.